The therapist must ask all the interview questions on the list of Oral History Questions.

In the context of Gottman's Method Couples Therapy, it is important for therapists to engage in a flexible and responsive interviewing style rather than adhering rigidly to a predetermined set of questions. While the Oral History Questions serve as valuable tools to gather important background information about the couple's relationship, not all questions need to be asked in every case.

Therapists should focus on creating a safe and open space for couples to share their experiences and narratives. This means that they might choose to prioritize certain questions that are most relevant to the couple's unique circumstances or emotional needs, while also being attentive to the flow of the conversation. The therapist's ability to adapt and respond to the dynamics of the session allows for a more tailored approach, leading to deeper insights and a more productive therapeutic process. Consequently, it is acceptable to omit certain questions if they do not serve the couple's immediate context in session, making it not necessary to ask all the questions on the list. This approach aligns with the underlying principles of empathy, validation, and responsiveness emphasized in Gottman’s method.