In Gottman's approach, what is the purpose of creating a shared meaning system?

In Gottman's approach, the creation of a shared meaning system serves the essential purpose of developing mutual goals, values, and rituals that both partners can identify with and support. This system fosters a sense of partnership and connection by allowing each partner to articulate their dreams, aspirations, and significant life themes.

When couples engage in this process, they can create a deeper emotional bond and a shared narrative that informs their relationship and guides their decision-making. Establishing this shared meaning is instrumental in enhancing relationship satisfaction as it encourages partners to support one another's goals and to participate in rituals that signify their unique bond.

A shared meaning system does not primarily focus on hierarchy or individual space but rather emphasizes collaboration and unity, creating a rich tapestry of shared experiences that strengthen the relationship. It also does not promote avoidance of discussions about differences; instead, it encourages couples to engage in meaningful conversations to enhance understanding and appreciation of each other's perspectives.